Infatuation: an object of foolish and extravagant passion. This is perfect way to describe the relationship between the characters in William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. Two young teenagers from two households, both alike in dignity, fall deeply in love. One of the problems was Romeo could not have gotten over Rosaline so quickly, their love was just a physical attraction and they got married too quickly. Their love shows deep passion towards each other today.
The character Romeo is heart broken by his love Rosaline and has already fallen in love with Juliet in just 1 day! Healing from love takes time. It doesn’t happen in a couple of days. In Act 2, Scene 3, Line 70 when Friar Lawrence says “Hath wash’d thy sallow cheeks for Rosaline”. Friar Lawrence is trying to say that Romeo has gotten over Rosaline too fast and not fallen into love with Juliet, the rebound girl. This shows that Romeo’s love for Juliet was just infatuation.
The marriage of Romeo and Juliet was rushed. They have only known each other for only 2 days. In Act 2, Scene 3, Line 94 Friar Lawrence says “Wisely and slow, they stumble that run fast”. Friar Lawrence being a wise man is trying to give fatherly advice to Romeo. He is trying to tell Romeo to take everything slowly and get to know this girl before he marries her. This shows that their love is not true since true love is a gradual process. Romeo and Juliet have an unhealthy relationship.
The “love” that they showed each other was obsessive. In William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, the characters supposed love is just infatuation because of Romeo’s quick healing period over Rosaline, Romeo and Juliet have fallen in love in 2 days and because their relationship is unhealthy. Romeo only took 2 days to get over Rosaline which was way too short showing that their love was infatuation. Love is a long process, it doesn’t happen in the matter of days.