This research paper is about three societal institutions, including: family, government and religion, which do in fact play a role in marriage and mate selection. I will be looking at this from an exchange theory point of view. So I will be presenting these points as how the costs can outweigh the rewards, deeming the relationship not worth your time. Essentially outlining how worth = rewards – cost. Family, if not agreed with your choice of mate, could virtually destroy the whole relationship. The government’s laws could alter your decision on a mate and marriage due to all the legal hassle than it can cause.
Finally religion, which can cause many disputes with you partner regarding family, family practices, holidays, children and each other’s point of views. These three social institutes can have a huge impact on your life; specifically mate selection and marriage wise. Family is one of the social institutes that can play a huge role in whom you may chose as a mate and may or may not marry. If you family is not supportive in your choice of partner you will most likely not chooses him as a spouse (Grover, K. J. 1985). It just simply will not work out. If your family keeps nagging you about your partner or keeps criticizing and just refuses to act civil it will your mate angry and cause a multitude of fights. This will almost definitely lead to a break-up. In the end your family will have stopped you from choosing that mate because of their lack of support. If you do manage to get married by just ignoring the family it will cause marital disputes due to the family and almost definitely end in divorce.
Government is another societal institute that could play a role in marriage as well as mate selection. Getting impregnated out of wedlock can cause a horde of legal issues whether or not the baby daddy is in the picture. More specifically, the law would have to deal with thing like child custody and child support. Or in another scenario if you may not think the relationship will work out between you and your current partner may not even try to work on the problem (Teachman, J. D. , and Polonko, K. A. 1990).
This would solely be due to the fact that there could be various legal troubles involved. For example divorce, which can cause major financial and emotional stress. The government and their laws will definitely influence your decision regarding partners and marriages. Religion I believe plays an influential aspect on the topic of mate selection and marriage. Different religions are different for a reason. There are a mass of religions and they each include different beliefs and prospects each unique to any other religion (Sprecher, S. sullivan, Q. , & Hatfield, E. 1994). This can cause many disputes among a couple. Which could include family arguments, marital disputes, which church to have your wedding in (if a church is even applicable), to which religion your children practice (if any at all). Someone may consider these aspects about religion before choosing a mate and decide it is not worth their time; then look for a mate that is the same religion as them from the get go. Leaving no chance for them to go through any of the hassle mentioned.
Overall family, government and religion can impact who you choose as a mate and get married to. Those societal institutes can cause many problems for you and your family and even friends; as well as a multitude of marital disputes. I believe this all being presented from an exchange theoretical point of view make the arguments stronger as well as more understandable. Societal institutes can alter your decisions and make you stop and think before you even think to make a decision about your future mate and marriage.